Thursday, July 29, 2010

No More Mr. Nice Gay At TARGET


















The CEO at Target thought it was in his company's interest to donate $150,000 to MN Forward, an organization that supports Tom Emmer a Republican Candidate for governor of Minnesota. Emmer is anti-gay and is supported by folks who advocate violence against the lgbt community. Now you got some pissed off gay folks! I just shopped there like a week ago, and do most of my holiday shopping there...but no more. There is debate about the effectiveness of boycotts. I would hate not shopping there, but damn don't act like you respect your gay employees and customers then pull some sh*t like this. So until CEO Gregg Steinhafel makes amends to our community I guess I need to spend my money somewhere else. Target, your stuff is cute, but not worth disrespecting myself.

Gregg.Steinhafel@target.com   ph: 612-696-6234      fax: 612-696-6325


http://www.windycitymediagroup.com/gay/lesbian/news/ARTICLE.php?AID=27464

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#%21/pages/Boycott-Target-Until-They-Cease-Funding-Anti-Gay-Politics/147077835306202?ref=mf

http://www.change.org/petitions/view/demand_target_stop_donating_to_anti-gay_politicians

Consumer Vents At Target For Right-Wing Donation

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Christina Aguilera - Not Myself Tonight (Official Unedited)

Lots of talk on the web about Christina Aguilera’s new song "Not Myself Tonight". Critics and fans are saying she is bitin’ hard off of Lada Gaga. I see way more Madonna references than Gaga. She bites off some other divas including Annie Lennox, RuPaul and even George Michael. So is the vid a rip off or a tribute…you decide. Click image for larger view.

The latest is her summer tour was canceled. Speculation for cancel is that the single didn’t do so hot on the charts.































































Monday, May 10, 2010

Introducing our New Happy Anniversary Card!

I'm happy to introduce a new Happy Anniversary card to the Lavenderpop Greeting Card Collection. Lavenderpop cards were created to serve the relationships within the LGBT community. The Anniversary card is just as appropriate for our straight allies.

Check it out among the other 'DATING' cards.
Dating Card Happy Anniversary Link

There is also a special going on. Buy any 3 cards and get a 4th card FREE.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

What Is Justice For The Black Gay Man Panel Discussion










Keith Boykin









E. Patrick Johnson










Antonio D. Jimenez

I attended a recent panel discussion titled 'What Is Justice For The Black Gay Man?' on Thursday, January 28, 2010. Sponsored by a collaboration of orgs: Chicago Black Gay Men’s Caucus, TPAN, Project CRYSP, Lifelube, and the Communities of Color Collaborative.

On the panel were Keith Boykin, editor, author, TV host and former White House aide to president Clinton, E. Patrick Johnson, a professor at Northwestern University and author of "Sweet Tea: Black Gay Men of the South," and Antonio D. Jimenez of the University of Illinois Chicago’s School of Public Health. The event took place at the The University Center downtown Chicago and the audience was standing room only. My brief notes from each panelist's message:

Keith Boykin: Our biggest problem is our own internalized homophobia. Attitudes won't change until the Black community sees out Black gay men. Go beyond identy politics and have dialog with other groups and movements.

E. Patrick Johnson: In interviewing Black gay men for this book, "Sweet Tea: Black Gay Men of the South" he discovered that these men are looking for affirmation and confirmation. Justice is being who you are and calling others out on their homophobia, even family members.

Antonio D. Jimenez: Spoke from the perspective as an ally. He started one of the earliest HIV prevention orgs that served the Black and latino community-Minority Outreach Intervention Project. He spoke of the need for men to be tested and to be proactive about their health. Black men must also maintain connections to family members and partners for support.

Congrats to organizers for great turnout and discussion by panelists and audience. After the panel, several people expressed feedback that 'Justice' as a topic was too broad. I agree that topic is broad, but as a starting point maybe that's ok. Looking at the many themes that came up, hopefully the organizers will use the email list serv to have follow up talks with more narrowly focused topics. Other attendees have suggested more focused discussions and measurable outcomes.

Topics I noted were:

Identity/Being true self
Visibility/Outness
Homophobia/Internalized homophobia/Heterosexism
Access to privilege (white, male, etc)
Role of allies
HIV prevention in marginalized communities (MSM, prisons)Interconnections with others (trans, bi, women)
Knowing our Black gay history (Bayard Rustin)
Using agency/empowerment to get stuff done
Affirming one another to build community

I believe the large turn out represents the desire for Black gay men to find solutions for ourselves. I noticed members representing many organizations in the audience; Chicago Windy City Black Pride, Adodi Chicago, ONYX, religious/spiritual orgs, etc. Maybe a comprehensive list of local Black gay groups could be posted to let others know who is doing what in the community.

As a small business owner (http://www.lavenderpop.com/), I’d like to see discussion on how we can build economic power and networking to address issues. I’ve heard feedback that continued talks about homophobia and stigma, while important, are a distraction from building economic and political power. Homophobia effects white gays too. And as one audience member said “White gays get stuff done (along with lesbians)”. Can Black gays who have less economic power and privilege than white gays, successfully confront the multiple issues that negatively affects our full participation in the Black community and the larger society?

Panelists take audience questions

Front row panelists seated: L to R-Antonio D. Jimenez, Keith Boykin, and E. Patrick Johnson
along with event organizers

E. Patrick Johnson and me

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Kathy Griffin not so D-list signing


























Maybe I was just tired after standing in line for 3 1/2 hours to get my book signed by Kathy Griffin. The 'official' pic with her, my eyes are shut and I'm looking particularly greasy. D-List my ass...the line for her snaked around all three floors of Borders. Now 'yall know I'm not much for book readin' and learnin', but the parts I read standing in line give a revealing insight into her early development in comedy and all the behind the scenes obstacles she overcame. It’s a very funny read. Saw her standup the following weekend at Chicago Theater, and she killed.
Location: 830 N. Michigan Ave. Chicago